Reiki is very useful and effective tool which creates and nurtures successful relationships. But it begins by first identifying the troubled relationships and recognising them as energy and as a living being. Relationships is nothing but a fusion of energies of two people, we must realise that.
After recognising relation as energy, the requirement is to force the universal energy into the bond between the two persons. You are ready to serve as a channel of energy and direct it towards the other person and heal the relationship as defects in an energy form. That is why The power of Reiki in healing relationships has been realised and practiced so much.
In case of imbalance in relation, the cause lies in power issues mostly. There are emotions of fear, doubt, a sense of victory and defeat etc. Therefore, it begins with knowing the weaknesses in relation. In this process, it becomes the object to which the energy flows. The relationship acquires the form of a physical object in an imaginary way and the energy is guided to it. This physical object represents the relationship and can be any item like any image, crystals, flower etc. Giving energy to these will serve the purpose of giving energy to the relationship.
Selecting such objects has immense spiritual advantage because they enable you to focus the healing energy onto the target. They will act as a reference when channelizing energy and have a purpose of their own. You will be able to visualise them as a pictorial or physical representation and this make you concentrate more.
This is so because it is a natural tendency to be able to concentrate more on physical manifestations as compared to the abstract or unseen points of reference. You will also know the rising and timing of rise of the conflicts and resolve them immediately and effectively to prevent them from spiralling.
So, whether it is a relationship between children and parents or between spouses, it will work greatly using crystals etc. You can draw energy towards yourself by meditating on them and visualising them in your meditation.
The problems will be resolved which are the bare expressions of deep problems associated with wrong or unwanted energy patterns and distribution and require addressing the real problem and not only the one which appears at the front. Therefore, it is not an option but the only way that one deals with problems at the deep and real cause of wrong and defective energy formations and patterns.

